WHY YOU NEED TO PLAN FOR MARRIAGE BEFORE PLANNING FOR WEDDING

Marriage is a long term relationship between two individuals while wedding is a ceremony of getting married. Majority of people are planning for wedding before marriage. Wedding is just for a day while marriage is for life. The problem now is that, many people take their time to plan for their wedding, they want to do their wedding in an elaborated form, they want their wedding to be the talk of the town and they spend huge amount of money on their wedding.

No matter all they spent on the wedding, no matter the caliber of people that attended the wedding, all will end just in that same day but the marriage will start and continue either well planned for or not. Some people will go to the extent of indebted, either elaborated wedding or not, everybody will go back to their different home and it will remain husband and wife only to drive their home forward. This is where problem lies because nobody is going to building your home for you.

Planning of marriage is for long period different from planning for wedding which is just short period. There is no way you can plan all for marriage but planning of marriage started from when you are still young, when you have known what is home and marriage. Then, you must have seen many homes both happy homes and unhappy homes and the thought must have come to you on how you want your home to be when you get married. You have to know what marriage entails before planning for wedding. Failure to plan for marriage at the long run is the problem some people are facing today.

Before we can build a happy home, we must first of all build ourselves to a good house wife/husband materials. We must build our character, some people's character are very bad to the extent that they can't live together or share anything together with anybody but they want to live together with husband/wife. They always find it difficult to live happily with their husband or wife when they get married. Nobody can build good character in a short period of time, it started from your childhood to adult level. Parents should try and build their children ahead of future.