What makes you to be matured for marriage

Maturity can not be measure in terms of stature, age, family background or complexion. At times, somebody  might be old enough to marry but he or she may not mature enough. A boy of 20 year can be mature more than a man of 40 year.  Maturity can be measure with the following:

1) Psychological Maturity: This is the ability to respond to the environment  in an appropriate manner. This response is generally learned rather than instinctive. Maturity also encompasses being aware of the correct time and place to behave and knowing when to act, according to the circumstances and the culture of the society one lives in.

2) Physical Maturity: The physical maturity is such that the person willing to go into any relationship with the opposite sex must be up to or beyond the puberty stage. When you are still teenager, people believes you are still young and not old enough to marry. In this stage, your age determine when you are mature for marriage. For instance, when a lady is above 30 year of age, she will be eager to settle down and her parent will even be disturbing her to settle down.

3) Financial Maturity: Your financial capability as a man has a great impact in any relationship. There are some spending you need to do during courtship that you must not borrow to do. When you get married you independent and you are no more under the control of anybody. To take care of your own family now become your responsibility. To meet up with your home's demand, you must have a stable job and regular income and without this you, you are not mature enough to get marry.

4) Social Maturity:  Social maturity is the process of appropriate attitudes for personal, interpersonal and social inadequacies of an individual which are essential for functioning effectively in the society. This maturity has to do with your social life. The way you interact with people, your exposure and how you relate with people.

5) Spiritual Maturity: this is the most important maturity of all. The level you are spiritually before you enter into any relationship will determine how the relationship is going to look like. The higher you are spiritually, more successful your relationship would become. Your Christianity level, the way you move closer to God determine your success in marriage.