ARE YOU THE BIOLOGICAL FATHER OF YOUR FIRST CHILD?

The issue of marriage is dangerous and delicate that everyone needs to be very very careful before getting to it. No wonder why so many homes are in problem, why our society is having problem. No wonder why some men are labour without good result. For an adage says, any home that is at peace the bastard child there is not yet grown up.

Young boys and men, this is the reason why you need to avoid premarital sex, sex is not meant for you now. When you get married you will enjoy it with your wife. Some ladies are very dangerous and they can do and undo. They believe that they should use what they have to get what they want. Some of them didn't have one particular boyfriend and when they get pregnant, they will be looking for who to be responsible for the pregnancy. When they come to Mr A and he refused to accept the pregnancy, they will go to Mr B, when he did not accept it they will go to Mr C until somebody out of his ignorant accept to be responsible for the pregnancy.

Some ladies are in a serious relationship but still have some other boyfriends, when they get pregnant from out side they arrange it for their guy. The funniest thing is that, some guys knew they are responsible for the pregnancy but not ready to be a father now, they later want to claim the child in future. Assume you involved in this game and you now father a bastard child, when the secret later leak in future that you are not the biological father of the child you claimed to be your child, how will you feel? But when you wait till the right time, you did not mess around, you take the right step and you do necessary test, there is no way you can father a bastard child.

To buttress my point, there was a great crusade in one of the state in our country here which I will not mention the name. The man of God saw a revelation and said it that some women are here, the person they claimed to be the father of their first child are not and they should come out now for prayer before the  they wrath of God come upon them, almost half of the women in the congregation came out. Imagine this, it's happens every where but when you try to be decent and look for a decent lady to marry and abstain from premarital sex, you can not involve in such mess.