REASON WHY YOU SHOULD NOT COLLECT GIFT BEFORE A RELATIONSHIP

Some ladies really believe in gift, before you can approach them you must have bought or presented gift to them. They can't see you as responsible or generous person if you don't buy them gift, they will rather call you a stingy man and they will not give you audience. Buying gift is not the determinant of true love. There are some guys who can spoil you with varieties of gift but deep down them, they did not love you. They are only doing that to get what they want from you, you will know their real colour immediately after they get what they want.

When you did not start with accepting gift from men, if you enter into a relationship and you discovered somethings you don't like in the relationship, you can easily quit after all you have not collected any thing from him. Your mind will be free but if he had spent much for you, he may be thinking you played him and be treating you. Your conscience may not allow you to rest thereby you may decided to marry him without even considering the fact that it is not good to marry out of pity or to manage a relationship/marriage or to marry him and believe you will change him or her later.

When you start receiving gift before relationship, that may lead you to marry wrong person. Proverb. 17:8 A gift is a precious stone in the eyes of him that hath it: whithersoever it turneth, it prospereth. Proverb. A wicked man taketh a gift out of the bosom to pervert the ways of judgement. Eccl. 7:7 Surely oppression maketh a wise man mad; and a gift destroyeth the heart. Exo. 23:8 And thou shalt take no gift: for the gift blindeth the wise, and perverteth the words of the righteous. The joy of marriage is for you to marry somebody you both understand each others and live a happy life. Be wise, don't eat your future today.