UNDERSTANDING IN MARRIAGE

       Understanding is one of the most important tools to drive marriage to final destination. What do I mean by saying marriage destination? On the wedding day, both couple agreed and vowed that "we will love each other to the death do us part" death is the final destination of marriage here on earth.



      Level of understanding need to be considered before two people could come together as husband and wife. Two people who do not understand each other need not to get married to one and other at all. That is why bible says in Amos 3:3 that "can two be together except they agree".

     Some people may loose heaven because of the husband or wife they married. In a home where husband or wife failed to understand each other, there will always be an argument that may be leading to crises between them. They will hardly have time for God and the presence of God may not be in such home. Where there is no happy home, the father, the mother and their children will suffer for it. It may even extend to the society they belong to.

    To every spinsters and bachelor out there who are read this, before taken a final decision on marry one particular sister or brother, make sure you put understanding into consideration. If you always argued on issues or he or she doesn't summit easily, is better you think twice. Marriage is not what you should manage at all, if both of you are not compatible, there is nothing you can do to make you people to be compatible. There are many home today that are in problem and unhappy just because they lack understanding. Every couple needs to study themselves and know what their spouse want and what he doesn't like and avoid it.