When you ask some people who is their best friend, you will see them mention somebody who doesn't add value to their lives. Somebody who doesn't love them, somebody who can easily betray them. Somebody who can not stay by them during period of problem, Somebody who can ruin their lives.
Your spouse should be your best friend immediately after you get married. The moment you get married, you have to reduce the number of friends you keep. When you see your spouse as your best friend, it helps marriage. It promote cordial relationship and mutual understanding among couple. Create time for your spouse more than your friends outside.
Some men prefer to stay long with their friends in beer parlor and return home late in the night, how will their wives and children enjoy their husband and fatherly role? You may be providing all they need at home but is not enough if you wife can not feel your presence when you are suppose to be around her. Your wife and children want to be seeing you around them and feel your presence. Don't be too far to your spouse, let him or her feel your absent whenever you are not around or your work demands for that.
There are many couples that live like cat and rat at home. The only time they enjoy staying at home is when their spouse are not around. When both husband and wife are at home, their house will not be conducive to stay that day. Some even
see their spouse as their enemy and there is no mutual corporation
between them. They can not sit down and reason together the way forward,
How would such home be progressed? Any home where couple do have
problem with each other, the children suffer the consequence. See your
spouse as your best friend and practice your friendship wholeheartedly
and you will see your family keep progressing.
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