6 ways to attract a GOOD MAN and NOT a Boy

 Here are ways to attract a good guy and keep him:

1. Be affectionate

Most men are attracted to women who show they care about the people, animals or things around them. They want to be with someone who’s nice and caring and who can satisfy their need for affection because most of them are only big babies inside that tough exterior. So, don’t be afraid to show your feelings; just try not to smother him because, just like you, he still needs his freedom and that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you.

2. Be encouraging

Men are powered by their ego, which is a known fact and a sex trait they have. You don’t have to constantly compliment men all the time, but be encouraging. A man likes to know if he gets a promotion at work, makes a great meal, is having a hard time, or dealing with a life issue, that he has your encouragement and support. Tell him, leave him a note, or even send a card. He’ll love you for it!

3. Be authentic

Be yourself. When you meet someone for the first time, you may be tempted to be someone you’re not, such as “putting on your best face”. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to make a good impression. However, it is possible to take this too far and in turn repel men. The same applies with myths about dressing sexy and excessive flirtation. If you do not respect your body, you will only attract men who have a similar lack of respect for you and your body, and a good man will find it more difficult to take you seriously. Be yourself, and a real man will respect you.

4. Respect yourself

If you say no, he should stop. If he doesn’t stop, leave. Don’t ever be uncomfortable saying no. Don’t go against your morals to try to keep a guy. If you feel this is necessary, then either he’s not a good man, or he is a good one but simply isn’t a good match for you specifically. Don’t be uncomfortable saying yes, either.
If you feel the time is right, believe in your worth and don’t worry that you’re giving yourself away. You respect yourself and you’re confident that he’ll come back for more! A man who doesn’t respect you in the morning never properly respected you to begin with, and a man who doesn’t respect your wishes to wait is too impatient to make a good partner. Either way, find someone else. There are great guys out there. Stay connected to your own greatness, and they’ll come flowing your way.

5. Be understanding

I think that every man wants to be with a woman who is understanding and nice, who’s not nagging him all the time and who’s not trying to control his life. Also, a man would really love a woman that accepts him the way he is, that loves him for who he is and who doesn’t try to change him. I wouldn’t like someone try to change me either; I would gladly try to improve my behaviour to make somebody happy, but that would be my choice.

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