14 Questions you should ask yourself in relationship

1. Is for better or worse making me better or worse?
Does your partner encourage you to be your best self, or does he or she get intimidated by any triumphs and feel more secure when you're not putting your best foot forward?
2. Do we really accept one another?
There will always be things you want to change about the people in your life, but no one should be in
a situation where they feel they aren't allowed to be authentic and accepted as the unique, special (yet flawed) person they are

3. Am I happy to be in this relationship?

The idea of sharing a life together is not to find someone to complete you or make you happy. But let’s face it: being unhappy at home can seep into other areas of your life ... and fast. If you're always
fighting or just generally not feeling great about your twosome, it doesn't mean you have to bail out

Don't consider these following things for marriage

Don’t marry for s3x,
Don’t marry because you are of age,
Don’t marry because you are getting old,
Don’t marry because you are lonely,
Don’t marry because you need someone to support you financially,
Don’t marry because you mistakenly got pregnant,
Don’t marry because you don’t want to lose the person,

BATHING TOGETHER WITH YOUR SPOUSE

                           
Once a man and a woman join together as husband and wife, they become one body/ one flesh. The body of husband belong to his wife and the body of wife belong to her husband and nobody else. They have nothing to hide for each other, they can bath together, they can dress up together. Their nakedness need not to be hiding to each other but to outsider.

Woman who stabbed husband to death with a kitchen knife on the throat, remanded in Bayelsa

Mrs. Victoria Ambakadrimo, the 28-year-old woman that stabbed her husband, Late Barr. Henry Gagariga, to death with a kitchen knife on the throat around 11pm of Wednesday, February 4 after a quarrel in Bayelsa has finally appeared before a state high court in Yenagoa for the first time.The presiding judge, Justice A.S Rotimi, adjourned proceeding to 18th June 2015, to enable the prosecuting (the state) hand over certain forensic evidences to the defence counsels before hearing commence.

20 ways to sustain the first love

                        
1. Move closer to God and commit your marital life to Him
2. Don't place friends in place of your husband/wife
3. Don't divert the love of your husband/wife to your children
4. Don't be too attached to your parents as they can mislead you
5. Stay in your place as a woman in every situations. Be humble, submissive and be a follower

6. Don't allow environment influence in your home e.g. Office discussion among women
7. Don't be rigid, play along with each other
8. See your husband as your pastor, as your lord and as your head